Get comfortable being uncomfortable
The military places emphasis on sport and adventurous training.
“If you’re going to be good at a sport, you need discipline, focus and resilience,” Alex says. “Those elements start to feed into the military because it isn’t a job, it’s a lifestyle.”
Adventurous training can mean walking up a mountain, scrambling, rock climbing, cycling, skiing or snowboarding. The activity itself is only part of the point.

“It’s designed to push you beyond your comfort zone. As you push beyond that comfort zone, you start to see what your limits are. You start to see the physical and mental indications that you’re approaching that limit.
“And what we do in the military is push you past your limit and show you that you can actually do this. If you’re rock climbing up the side of a mountain and you’re scared of heights, it’s: keep going. Get yourself past that point.
“Then, when we’re operating in our jobs and starting to push beyond what we’re comfortable with, you can recognise those same physical and mental reactions. You’ve felt it before."
It’s designed to push you beyond your comfort zone. As you push beyond that comfort zone, you start to see what your limits are. You start to see the physical and mental indications that you’re approaching that limit.
The point is not simply to see how far somebody can be pushed, rather it is to help them recognise what pressure feels like before they encounter it in an environment where the consequences are much greater.
The same thinking can be seen in how we train and assess future controllers at NATS. Candidates can be placed into simulated airspace, given feedback and then asked to go again. The point is not to be flawless at the first attempt, but to see whether someone can process what happened, adapt and perform better the next time.
The mountain and the simulator could hardly look more different, but both give people somewhere to experience challenge before the stakes are real.
Alex has his own, slightly less glamorous example.
He has been snowboarding with the military for around six years. He once broke his arm doing it. He also races.

“I come last every single time,” he says, laughing.
But he keeps turning up.
“I’m still racing, I’m still pushing. As you start making progress, you get that competitive element where you’re like, I want to win.
“As soon as you’re at that starting gate, irrespective of how good you are, you want to win. That’s the mindset the military put into me. When I go into work, I want to do my best. I want to come out of that going: I did everything that I could.”